Wednesday, February 01, 2006

My Dear Friend Ann

Today is a dark day. It is one that I knew would probably come, eventually, but I was hoping against hope that it wouldn't. I was hoping and praying that someway, somehow Ann would be able to recover from Stage Four Lymphoma.

This morning, at 710 AM, Ann passed away ..

No more struggling, no more tiredness, none of that. Ann is in a better place.

I met Ann 6 years ago. She and her son were enrolled in an ECFE class with I and Troy. I had just run my first marathon-Grandmas Marathon of 1999-and was telling the class about it. Ann came up to me and told me that she used to run High School track and was interested in getting back into it.

At that point our friendship began.

I told her there was a Big Lake Run Club, but that I was a bit apprehensive in checking them out. I knew it was mainly men, and fast lean men, and I was afraid I wouldn't cut the mustard.

We began to meet weekly to run and to get her mileage up to five miles. Once she was at five miles we decided to meet the Big Lake Runners.

Thank goodness we did! They welcomed us with open arms and we have been attending the Wednesday night runs since.

A few years later I asked Ann if she'd like to run a marathon before turning 40. "Wouldn't that be awesome, Ann..a marathon.. before 40!" Impossible, she thought. I knew better. She was going to be running Grandmas with me the following year.

We began training and sure enough..we were at the start line in a few short months. I had just run FANS 24 Hour Run two weeks before Grandmas so the plan was to stay together as long as we could, then she should go out on her own, as I'd be tired. She thought I'd go out on my own. Not so. At mile 20 she kicked it up a notch and off she went!

It was an awesome day.

Since then I and Ann have shared many many hours together. Ann ran her first 2 50K's this last summer. I had the honor of running the 2nd with her. I watched her finish the first.

Just four short months ago we ran Twin Cities Marathon.

Everything can change in a minute.

Take care, my dear friend, Ann. I love you.

6 comments:

nancytoby said...

I'm so sorry. That's a touching tribute.

Chris said...

What a great way to honor a great friend. Best wishes to you and Ann's family in dealing with her loss...

jessie_tri_mn said...

Oh Julie, I am sorry to hear this. What a wonderful friend.

Take care. My thoughts are with you.

Anonymous said...

Julie, so sorry to hear of Ann's passing... she was a good friend, and you have been a good friend to her. A verse for encouragement for you today:
"We also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out His love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom He has given us."
Take care,
Brent

Kim said...

Julie I am so sorry for the loss of your friend Ann - what wonderful memories you have shared of her - She is in a better place and one day you will be running with her again. Big HUGS to you. You are a shining example of a true friend, I will pray for some peace to come to you in these trying time ahead.

Joe Sherry said...

Very sorry to hear about Ann.